Posted by MzChaos on December 11, 19102 at 04:11:42:
In Reply to: Can You Help Me? posted by Vicky on December 07, 19102 at 15:19:14:
This isn't too complicated, Vicky. You, Your best friend and your exboyfriend - all have qualities that you admire and see in yourself. Of course, or you wouldn't have liked them and wanted to be around them in the first place. The basketball game...though, that represents an aspect that you kind of treat like "it's all just a game", like maybe you don't give it enough credit in your life. The new relationships could simply be a metaphor for moving into a new relationship with the self, or even others around you. We tend to adopt and keep the good habits and qualities that we find in those around us that we admire. It is possible that you were picking up something subliminal like your girlfriend likes your ex-boyfriend...but let me tell you friends are forever, the boys come and go so hang onto the friends...if your done with him and she likes him...let her have at it. Kissing in dreams is a lesser degree of the same thing as sex, in that it is a way of acceptance, of taking on or saying subconsciously that its ok for you possess the qualities that you find attractive. Maybe your relationship isn't over, but I would suggest looking at what you did admire about him and trying to find that in yourself...its very empowering. I hope this helps.